Dating before divorce final christian

Making the decision to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back out there after a divorce is a noble decision.We’ve seen too many people that choose to sulk in their situation and never seem to get out of the funk that it puts them in.

It is not the time to be looking for the next person in your life.

You are about to break your covenant with God and your spouse.

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I have made the mistakes of trying to take shortcuts, and they ended up just being another trip around the mountain spinning my wheels.

So as I write this article, I want to encourage you to take a deep breath, quiet your heart and emotions and listen to the still small voice of the Lord concerning this issue of dating while separated.Separation is not pre-divorce as many see it today.It is meant to be a time where both parties separate so they can have space and time to make a critical decision that will affect their lives and the lives of those around them.Although a person may have emotionally detached from their marriage, and even if they are waiting for the divorce to be final, the fact remains that it is not final and that finality is very important as I will get into later in this article.Dating while separated is extremely unwise at best, (assuming there is no sexual involvement going on, including kissing and hand-holding), and emotional adultery at worse.You are not keeping your vow to God to give yourself only to your spouse.

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