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But to say that the answer for Black women desperately seeking wedlock is to marry a White man is unrealistic and overly simplistic.According to a 2011 Pew Research Study, marriage rates are declining amongst women are unmarried, yet, I don’t know of any White, Asian, Hispanic or Inuit professors standing up and telling their women that the answer to the decline in marriage in their community is to marry someone outside their race.If that’s the case, it’s worth considering that maybe the reason you’re consistently having problems of commitment in your relationships with Black men has absolutely nothing to do with the men.

There is an alchemy present in our emotional lives that is too fluid to ever be constrained by statistical data.

Blanks uses statistics to justify his position without taking into consideration some of the very real issues that those in interracial relationships face.

It is worth noting that Black women married to White men do have lower divorce rates than their Black/Black counterparts.

However, I doubt this is because White men are easier to control then their Black counterparts.

“Black men being in short supply means they can dictate the terms of the relationship and they often dictate terms that are not to the woman’s liking.” Let me get this right: one of the reasons why successful Black women should pursue relationships with successful White men is because a successful White man is more likely to create a relationship of “equals” with a Black woman than a Black man because successful White men want nothing more than to be in a relationship with a woman who is his equal?

*crickets* I’ve heard more than a few of my professional sisters come straight out and say some variation of this statement while declaing “forget about Black men and their non-appreciating behinds.” They’re looking to become the next Mrs. I’m a Black woman who has dated White, Hispanic and Black men.

Blanks (who by the way is married to a Black woman with multiple college degrees) continues “More than half of married black women who have graduated from college have a less-educated husband who did not.

Yet despite the shortage of black male peers, black women do not marry men of other races.

I respect and appreciate the fact that Blanks and his Black social psychologist wife, Dr.

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