Pros and cons of dating someone with a child

You’re proving to yourself you don’t see what’s on the outside If you can really fall in love for and care about somebody that is, on the outside, the total opposite of you, then you can pretty much guarantee you’re not a superficial person and that you know what really counts in a relationship.

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But for the harmony part to happen, the pros need to outweigh the cons. The introvert and the extrovert balance each other If the extrovert feels the need to go out every night and gets antsy without constant socializing, the introvert can teach him/her to learn to appreciate down time.

If the introvert has gotten lazy about “turning it on” and socializing, the extrovert can teach them the art of that again!

You can learn diplomacy There is no better way to practice diplomacy, mutual respect and tact than to date somebody with different political views.

If you can do this without fighting, and while still truly respecting the other as an intellectual, your relationship can overcome just about anything. Too many couples with differing political views lie to themselves and to each other, and put on a show as if everything is fine, when they secretly harbor resentment that comes out in other ways.

You’ll be invited to new sorts of events, and possibly make new business connections.

Eventually, you can conjoin your two groups into one mega group of friends.

Be sure you’re only dating your opposite for yourself, and no one else.

I just turned 29 and with a non-traditional work schedule, I have turned to online dating to help me make connections since it is rather difficult to go out on Friday & Saturday nights.

They will always come first and yes they can and do get in the way sometimes of scheduling/planning one-on-one dates. I'm now 30 and we have one together ourselves as well and she's probably one of the best people I've ever met. I spent time with him reading to him, taught him how to walk, taught him how to pee standing up (Lol!

) but I was ready for that type of "settling down." Why raz on a chick for having a kid?!

So, if you really can’t handle the political heat, get out of the kitchen (the relationship).

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