Rules about dating older men

Meeting people at the gym has a few build in advantages.First, any single man that you do meet at the gym is more interested than the average person in staying in shape.

When you sit down, don’t immediately pull out your mobile phone or book. When you are out with a dog or young child, there is a natural and comfortable energy about you.

This weekend, grab your dog and visit your local park.

He may say “my wife and I…” and that’s totally fine.

There should be no expectations when meeting new people. You can join groups for everything you can possibly imagine including hiking, art, photography, travel or dining out.

Another place to meet interesting men is the good old standby, the coffee shop. Sometimes just asking whether the chocolate muffins are any good is enough to start a great conversation. You’re not looking for the love of your life (although it would be nice to find him).

Many men come in every day to get their cup of chai or latte. Start a casual conversation with the man standing in line and smile! At this point, you’re just looking to make a friendly connection.

Online dating fills a gap for women who are more uncomfortable meeting new people in person.

There are lots of choices, like Match.com, where you can freely browse hundreds of profiles.

So what’s a midlife woman who was raised in a world where men were “supposed” to make the first move do?

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