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Basically, when a couple's goals or desires in life are no longer aligned, one person will quickly lose interest in trying to bring the other person back into alignment and "they will eventually seek out someone who has a parallel outlook on the future."But according to Shorter, it's not always a lost cause."My husband and I have been married for over six years and we still check in with each other at least once a quarter to see what our goals are at the moment, for the future, and how we can work together to achieve them," she says.It's that butterflies in your stomach feeling and nervousness you get when you know things are about to get intimate. As Golicic says, "This is chemistry, the sexual attraction for the other person.

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If you think of your partner as more of a loving friend than a romantic partner, Dr.

Jill Murray, licensed psychotherapist and author, tells Bustle, that may be a sign you've lost interest.

According to Shorter, having that desire to fight means there's still passion there. If you find yourself letting your partner win arguments, it could mean that you've just stopped caring.

Losing interest in your partner in a romantic sense can sometimes just happen.

"Sometimes values change or what attracts one partner at a period of time no longer attracts them," Murray says.

"There is no specific time period when this happens.Things tend to work more smoothly when everyone is on the same page."The heart of most relationships is that people generally enjoy being with the other person, regardless of what they are doing together," professional counselor, Heidi Mc Bain, MA, LMFT, tells Bustle.But just because you may still have feelings, it doesn't mean you're invested in the relationship."Oftentimes, losing interest in your partner has to do with growth, or a lack thereof," Katherine Shorter​, marriage counselor and founder of Yoked, tells Bustle.According to her, people often lose interest in long-term partners when one person outgrows or out-matures the other.But if your sexual thoughts are going elsewhere, you may need to take a step back and figure out what's going on.

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